This past year has been plagued with trials and tribulations. Mostly professional a few personal. Right now we are going through learning to balance a new life with a plus one. Its not a matter of whether or not we can handle it we HAVE to handle it. We have to learn how to deal with everything life throws at us and our new responsibility and rise to the occasion and make it work. I was watching something unfold yesterday in my arena and the irony of the situation with the mare and our current life changes made me chuckle.
My husband was given a little mare a few years back that nobody wanted. She’s had it pretty easy here but she’s pretty much taking up space and eating so as cool as she is she needs to earn her living or find a home. Her biggest downfall that has kept her from being a heel horse you can get by on versus a heel horse you can win on, is she hates do be pulled on. (Don’t We all) she’s never been asked to handle pressure situation’s, so draw a fast steer and everything is not perfect and she falls apart. We’ve all been there, cruising along merrily with everything going our way only to draw a runner and a bad handle. Well he has decided he’s GOT to get her to where she will work for someone even if it isn’t him. So yesterday morning he turned loose a hard running wild lead steer and began tracking her around the pen forcing the filly to have to speed up and slow down and handle whatever the steer threw at her. I looked out the window and there was a war going on. The filly was on the fight. My husband is a patient man he stuck with her without making a big deal of anything and let her throw her fit till she realized she was fighting herself and gave it up. It took a while she’s a hard headed little thing. When she decided to gather herself and listen to him and his guiding hand he cooled her out and quit her. Gave her a bath and took her to the roping pen last night. The steers were running on it was a real test for her whether she was going to work or protest again. He showed up back home around 10pm with a smirk on his face. Apparently she worked good enough that she gets to go along the the World Series Roping next weekend as back up to his good horse. She dealt with it and rose to the occasion.
It’s amazing how much we can learn from what we put out horses through in the training process. Years ago I was picking World Champion Clint Haverty’s brain at the vet about whether or not a foal by the late great Reining Horse Sire Gunner could run barrels. He talked about having to put a lot of them in a bind to get the best out of them and that has always stuck with me. A great horse will take the situation and learn and grow from it. A pickle will find a way to quit you and bail out. Its the same with people. If we sull up and quit in life we will never get anywhere. If we find a way to work through the pressure the next time it’s not going to be such a big deal. I’m dealing with this everyday as a new mom trying to continue on with life. I’ve recently been thru my first evening of constant screaming for attention. Not gonna lie she had me backed in corner looking for a way to make it stop. I finally after changing diapers, checking everything else that could be wrong, just dealt with it by letting her cry it out. When I went in to get her when she finally chilled out her eyes weren’t even red from crying. She was just hollering because I have came running every other time. This morning I sat her in her crib to get some work done I got a little protest and then she went to playing. Proud mommy moment but I gotta say it’s a lot easier to pick on a horse to the point your both mad and walk away than it is to let your daughter cry it out. I hope I am on the right track to teaching our daughter to deal with how things are and get better from them. I won’t ride a gutless horse I am going to do my best not to raise a gutless child.